All children need a strong sense of direction and clear expectations. A parent in control provides a stability all children need. Not only is it a need, but a want. Even though they may not be able to express themselves appropriately, children need and want boundaries, structure and a good sense of direction.

A consistent, loving, protective environment can be one that includes appropriate discipline. Establishing these basics will help with the additional challenges of the learning disabilities. For many reasons many parents don't or are afraid to exercise behavioral restraints.

Confrontation can be difficult, but appropriate structure will pay off in dividends once your child reaches adolescence. Your little boy or girl will already know what the limits are before he or she reaches the more challenging ages.

Let me assure you this much, they will eventually reach the age of rebellion and if you already have a well established relationship and understanding, your days and your child's days will be much more enjoyable.

With these foundations established, appropriate learning can occur and as necessary, different learning strategies can be introduced.